Whats going on with this guy???
met this guy when out we both fancied each other..have known him now for approx a year...seen him out and about anyway we met up when out. went to a party together he asked me for my number i took his in the end and then we texted a phoned occassionally. He did once ask me out nothing came of it though...then we kept on seeing each other and texting...should i ask him out hes back tomorrow should i just ask him out to a bar??? What do you think guys..he did come out of a 10 yr relationship last year? Can you make sense of why things have not progressed?10 POINTS for clear honest answer?
That's a long relationship...He may need time to get all the stuff out of his head...If you like him give him time to work things out...
You could ask him out to the bar, friends do that...Let him get to know you better, this way he will feel more comfortable...
10 years is a long time and him being single again, well that's going to take him a while to get use to....10 POINTS for clear honest answer?
Asking him out to a bar is a bad idea because of the alcohol influence. Which always changes a person's behavior. I would try asking him to a musem or something like that so you two can still talk. Don't pressure him, but allow yourself to be there for him if he needs someone to listen. A 10 year relationship is a difficult thing to get over but everyone can always use a friend. Just be gentle his heart needs a little mending. But a nice shoulder and a sympathic ear he will also appreciate.
well, 10 years is a long time.. if you really like him you should give him some time to clear everything out..ask him out, but act as a friend would and have a nice talk and then you'll know if he is ready to move on.. good luck..x
don't bring him to the bar ... he will think that u r that kind of girl who are a player and juz wants sexual satisfaction. the reason why it has not progressed is due to the old relationship which he hasn't let go off. give him time. he will accept u if everything goes well.
It's likely that the 10 year relationship may still be weighing heavily on him...doesn't sound like he's quite ready.
Either wait a while til he's comfortable or give up on it completely.
he might be afraid that he'll get hurt again or something, i say give it awhile, then ask him out when you know for a fact that he's not volnerable
maybe he dont wasnt his heart broken again lol
You said he is come out of a 10 years relationship! He may be cautious with new relationship.
Could it be he isn't ready for another relationship and feels you're coming on too strong at the moment? Maybe he just wants to be out there but with no one in particular. Just casual mtgs, talks, hi's and bye's...ask him out to dinner or a movie instead of a bar..If you like him and want more out of this, move slowly and let him take the lead....Good Luck
u can ask him out for a drink after work....if he's come off a 10yr relationship he's prob. not ready to into the dating scene just yet maybe that's why things ha vent progressed....the only way to find out is to take initiative and ask him out casually
After ten years it's a bit difficult to throw yourself immediately back on the proverbial horse.This should make you happy,he's a man who can commit seriously.Of course you should contact him,friendly,without expectations,for that drink. Let things take there course,you'll know if he's interested or not.Good Luck!
He's probably feeling a bit weird, he IS just out of a 10 year relationship like!!
Text him and ask him if he has plans, be casual and you'll be fine
If you do meet up, you'll know what to do and stuff by how he acts
if nothing came of it, maybe it was because he was in a relationship. or it could be that hes not interested in anything more than a friendship. if you felt anything more than that, it could be he wanted to keep you on the side in case things didnt work out with him and his girl, or just have you on the side just because. yeah sure, just ask him out. you two are friends, anyways. if you are trying to pursue something, i suggest wait a while. hes in rebound mode.
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